Do’s and Don’ts in Thailand

The don’ts of Thai social behaviour are less clearly defined than these concerning the monarchy or religion, especially in a city like Bangkok where Western customs are better known and more widely accepted. However, what is acceptable in Bangkok may not be in the countryside where the old ways are still prevalent. Here are a few things to keep in mind:

• Thais do not normally shake hands when whey greet one another, but instead press the palms together in a prayer like gesture called a “Waii”. Generally, a younger person wais an elder, who returns it. Watch how the Thais do it, and you will soon learn.
• It is considered rude to point your foot at a person, so try to avoid doing so when sitting opposite anyoen, and following the conception that the foot is a low limb; do not point your foot to show anything to anyone but use your finger instead.
• Thais regard the head as the highest part of the body both literally and figuratively. As a result, they do not approve of touching anyone on that part of the body, even in a friendly gesture. Similarly, if you watch Thais at a social gathering, you will notice that young people go to considerable lengths to keep their heads lower than those of the elder ones, to avoid giving the impression of “looking down” on them. This is not always possible, of course, but it is the effort that counts.
• Public displays of affection betweedn men and women are frowned upon. You may see some very westernised young Thai couples holding hands, but that is the extent of the displaying of affection in this polite society.
• Losing your temper, especially in public, will more than likely get you nowhere. The Thais think that such displays denote poor manners, and you are more able to get what you want by keeping calm and concealing your emotions.
• Do not be surprised if you are addressed by your first name: for instance, Mr. Bob or Miss Mary instead of by your surname. This is because Thais refer to one another in this manner, usually with the title “Khun” (Mr., Mrs. or Miss) in front. Follow the customs of the country as far as possible, and you will make more friends during your stay.